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A significant loss in life changes
people. More than likely it will cause them to grieve, too. Where will this
grief lead? "Grieving With Your Whole Heart" suggests that over time people
tend to realize that grief changes them for the good.
"Somehow in the midst of
sorrow you must begin to remap the world, to reorient to a landscape that has
changed dramatically -- whether through the loss of a loved one or job or
physical ability or identity," the book states.
People suffer losses of many kinds,
as the book's more than 80 brief essays make abundantly clear. There is the
loss of physical health or memory. There are painful losses resulting from natural
disasters, job loss and the losses that accompany retirement, debilitating injuries
or even divorce.
"One of the consistent
surprises of working with those going through divorce is how seldom they
recognize what they are experiencing as grief," writes the Rev. Carolyne
Call of the United Church of Christ.
I must admit that when I hear
the word "loss," I tend first to think of the death of someone's
family member or good friend. The difficult, typically unwelcome grief journey
that begins with a death is well addressed in this book.